What is the "Inner Childhood Narrative?"

The Beginning of Mindset

​The "Inner Childhood Narrative" ICN, is the script we use to understand ourselves, others, and the world. Forged in childhood, the ICN is the result of our early attachment experiences and is incredibly impactful on our ability to cope with stress and interact with others. Without having conversations when we are little to support our healing work, many of us get trapped in the brokenness of our childhood stories, unable to free ourselves from our misguided conclusions.

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Breaking the Cycle

Many parents tell me that they find themselves being reactive, angry, and sad in their parenting role and know it is somehow connected to their own childhood but are unsure how to stop the cycle. Small Talk Coaching was created to help parents make a BIG impact in the lives of their children as they break patterns, connect deeply, and support resilient living.

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“Susan Parker Jones has written a very reasoned, empathic, practical book about children and parenting. She knows the Enneagram well and it clearly informs her therapy practice. Susan has a light-hearted sensitive touch to her writing. No shaming; just explaining. For parents who want to understand the Enneagram and their children, The Wholehearted Child is well worth a read. ”

-Jerome Wagner, Ph.D., (Honorary International Enneagram Association Founder)

““Susan Parker Jones is a true gift to those who know and work closely with her. She can connect with any individual, but especially those who “come from the hard places”. Her gentle, calm, and intuitive ability to communicate and navigate emotion from difficult experiences is extraordinary.Her work with the Enneagram and young children is a unique approach and provides parents/caregivers a much deeper perspective, dispelling the myth, “I have tried everything.....nothing works with this child!””

- Tammie Benton, Head Start State Association Board President

“The Wholehearted Child is a brilliant resource for anyone looking for an attachment-based, trauma- informed guide to parenting their child well. Susan Parker Jones gives unique insight into child development, and offers specific parenting techniques that cultivate a lasting connection between parent and child. This book is a must-read for every parent!”

- Kelly Hamilton, Trauma-Informed Parenting Coach

““More than a parenting manual, The Wholehearted Child is a call to embrace the messiness of parenthood with courage and self-compassion. Susan’s writing invites us to see parenting as a journey of growth for both ourselves and our children. It’s filled with real-life stories and practical strategies that provide renewed hope and clarity for parents." ”

-Jenny Dedrick - Holistic Coach

““The Wholehearted Child is a groundbreaking resource for parents, educators, and mental health professionals alike. With genuine insight and practical advice, Susan Parker Jones illuminates pathways to nurturing children's emotional resilience and self-awareness through the enneagram. This book is highly impactful and a must-read for anyone seeking to empower children.” ”

-MacKensie Davis, Mental Health Therapist

“Susan is a treasure to me and my family. Her knowledge and empathy are unmatched. Her wordsof wisdom have given me comfort and guidance as a mom and I am so grateful she has shared herstrategies in The Wholehearted Child. ”

-Jessica Randol, Parent

“Susan is a treasure to me and my family. Her knowledge and empathy are unmatched. Her words of wisdom have given me comfort and guidance as a mom and I am so grateful she has shared her strategies in The Wholehearted Child. ”

-Jessica Randol, Parent

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